ARCHIVED FORUM: Gurdwara Tapoban Sahib
Marriages1
Posted by : Curious
Date: 7/13/2004 12:37 am
vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh
Why is it that some young amritdhari women look forward to marraige? I dont see amritdhari men doing the same. Neither should women. I don't know if this is a part of womanhood, but what I'm trying to say is.. The only way we can rid ourselves of such thinking is doing prayer. Please may we join our hands together and take part in prayer with mind, body, soul.
Thank you jeo for your time
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : abc
Date: 7/13/2004 8:49 am
VaahegurooJeeKaaKhaalsaa VaahegurooJeeKeeFateh
Whats wrong with looking forward to marriage? The chance to share and improve your Sikhee with someone?
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : Masard Ganda Singh
Date: 7/13/2004 8:53 am
I thought I had problems!!!
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : *
Date: 7/15/2004 9:16 am
Yeah, what IS wrong with looking forward to marriage? As "abc" said, marriage is a chance to share and improve your Sikhi with someone, amongst many other benefits, so why shouldn't singhs AND singhnees look forward to it?
And is there a "Marriages 2" post coming? I'm looking forward to it -- both marriage AND the marriage post ;)
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : Curious
Date: 7/15/2004 8:00 pm
No there is no Marriages 2 post coming..
I know I got you excited though..
I apologize for the inconvenience I caused
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : hmm
Date: 7/16/2004 12:42 pm
I know plenty of amritdhari men who also look forward to marriage.
> Why is it that some young amritdhari women look forward to marraige?
> I dont see amritdhari men doing the same. Neither should women.
I don't agree with your justification. Could it not just as easily be said the other way around? Maybe the men should follow the lead of women. Just because you claim men don't look forward to marriage doesn't make it the right/better thing.
Who knows what is right or wrong, only the person committing the act is in a position to judge themselves. All depends on how its affects YOUR sikhi.
Re: Marriages1
Posted by : kar kirpaa sabh rayN thheevaa
Date: 7/16/2004 2:55 pm
I look forward to my marriage !!!!!
Heck I am SOOOOOOO excited about my marriage...
The angles, holy men, silent sages, and the 330,000,000 deities have come in their heavenly chariots to see this spectacle.
Says Kabeer, I have been taken in marriage by the One Supreme Being, the Lord God. ||3||2||24||
