ARCHIVED FORUM: Gurdwara Tapoban Sahib
dealing with old friends...
Posted by : singh
Date: 7/07/2004 8:35 pm
Got a question for everyone. I go to this class out of town once a week. While I was walking around before class I ran into this old friend of mine and he invited me to hang out and go out to lunch before class next time. The problem is that I don't want to go eat out. He's a good guy but i just don't want to hang out that much. I also don't want to hurt this guy's feelings.
Me and him have been friends for 5 years and used to be into the same stuff. we drank, smoked up, and loved hip hop. but now my dhiann is towards sikhi and while he respects it he doesn't understand it and doesn't believe in God. he's a pretty sensitive guy and has been nothing but a loyal friend to me....what should i do'???? suggestions?
Re: dealing with old friends...
Posted by : well
Date: 7/08/2004 12:58 pm
i think you should tell him that you started to get into sikhi more and now you don't really eat out - it's not good for you
maybe you should just go with him to 7-11 and buy a slurpee before class
Re: dealing with old friends...
Posted by : noone
Date: 7/08/2004 9:40 pm
maybe u could tell him u don't like eating outside for health reasons or something , but i guess that's lying
Re: dealing with old friends...
Posted by : anon
Date: 7/09/2004 7:20 am
its not lying if your talking about spiritual health.
